Read this wonderful article.
I dint watch “Hasi to phasi” or “Queen”. But Highway was good in many ways.
I watched it as I heard it is nice and I loooove Randeep. I actually had not expected Alia acting so well(dint like student of the year) or having such a nice role.
It was a treat to see her do what she wants to do. My dream is to visit most of the beautiful places in the world. But I have never been out of my native place. The same “girls should be kept safe at home” concept. May be for this I enjoyed every scenery in the movie. I always have had a wild dream to go to the Bermuda triangle when I feel I have lived enough. They say who ever goes there never returns. I wish to solve the mystery before I die :) Really crazy. Any girl with such wild dreams would love the movie.
Any girl who wishes to “be free” would love the movie. The child abuse and physical abuse part has been shown in a heart touching way. As usual Randeep was awesome.
2 things were a shock, which dint go as I had thought they would. After all it is just a Bollywood movie.
i) When Veera (Alia) says she neither wants to marry nor to have kids. The hindi movie heroins have been always portrayed as “Adhuri”(incomplete) without a man and children. Some stupid hindi saas bahu serial recently was on TV in which the “sanskari bahu” thinks she is incomplete without a child. UFFFF. It was nice to see a girl breathe and decide that she need not marry if she doesn’t want to.
ii) When Veera (Alia) decides that she wishes to leave home and stay in the mountains where she always wished to live. I would have expected her to die (The Raam Leela types) or go crazy or finally just find someone else (the happy ending fairy tales ). She fights back! She goes to the mountains. She shouts at her uncle for having abused her in front of all. She lives the life she wants.
There was another article the same day. The only thing the Vajramuni was able to see was Randeep slapping Alia and the beautiful scenery. The movie clearly shows the difference of what we think is good and what is actually good. The society, the ‘reet rivaaj’, you are a girl- you need to be careful- you need to be quite if you are abused is all right. But there is a problem if a guy “protects her form a lecherous underling”. He shouldn’t be doing that. He is a bad boy after all. Why should there be a reason for him to be bad? Boys don’t feel anything. Really?
What if she hadn’t been kidnapped? What if she married a just-another-idiot ? She would have lived her life being suffocated. She would have been abused all her life. She would have “reared kids” even if she dint want to. She would have died just like any girl in the country who has to “behave” in a particular way and not have any dreams at all.
I wish that every girl DREAMS and doesn’t just settle for marriage and kids unless she really wants to. I wish she breathes and tries every way to fullfil her dreams.
My friend refuses to meet our school time class teacher. Back then we all (friends ) were playing. A boy hit her and she was chasing him to hit him back but couldn’t. He was fast at running. So she kept laughing trying to catch him. Suddenly the class teacher (a lady) entered and slapped my friend. She tried explaining that he was the one who had hit her. But she got scolded for having let the boy hit her.
My cousin sister who is just 10 yrs old was proposed by her classmate. She said this to her mom who inturn blamed her. The mother said her that she must have done something for the boy to have proposed her.
Many such “trainings” are a must in society so that they keep “Girls in control”. Boys are taught that no matter what they do it us the girls fault. Now they just hit or propose later they might rape too. Here is a link of fakeindianbahu who wishes to send a letter to the govt to add a curriculum that trains kids against these patriarchal values. Please do visit.
Have seen many such posts on FB pleading girls not to upload pictures on FB. This is no different from the ‘victim blaming’ culture.
U are a girl !! You are not supposed to dress like you like , you are not supposed to have any sexuality, you are not even supposed to upload any pictures. !! Its your fault! You are born as a girl so you better go invisible or someone might rape you or misuse your uploaded pic. And also as you are a girl you are not even supposed to have any self esteem. You should be blamed for everything with no one to support you. So you better commit suicide and disappear.
Good for you! ! Its your fault that you wish to LIVE YOUR LIFE. That you wish to wear clothes you like and you wish to upload your pics.
The hilarious thing about the post is that it thinks the monster who would morph the pic (whom patriarchy supports) can only access your pic through Facebook. If someone is holding grudge against you, the person would somehow get your photo and not wait for Facebook to have it uploaded. Also if assume a guy is doing this for random thinking its fun, then not the girl but this monster is to blame. He would have the same perception that even after so many warnings, if the girls post their pictures then they deserve such a punishment. No need to rape them, just morph and circulate the pics. No one would blame you. Its the girl’s fault! How dare she uploads her pics?
Never seen a post that says “Dear brothers please dont rape” or “Dear brothers please DONOT misuse the Pictures uploaded on Facebook. “
The girls are blamed and blamed so much that finally they start blaming themselves. If you are raped, you must suicide! Dowry harassment? ? Suicide! ! Morphed pics circulated?? Please commit suicide! ! This is how these posts look like to me encouraging girls to blame themselves! !
I hope this post encourages at least one boy to post ” Dear sister live your life your way! I will support you always. ” And even better if anyone would come up with the law that will support and help girls if they go through anything such. Which will inturn help to boost the self esteem and girls would just not die and vanish for someone else’s mistake.
And again let me remind. . “Dear brothers please don’t encourage rape culture!!!”
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I dint know how to start this blog, what my first post would be. Then I came across Tejaswee’s blog through IHM. IHM is an inspiration like many know. This poem is dedicated to IHM and her daughter. I might never know you but will always love u.
She must have seen the sun shine when it was still raining,
And to see the colorful rainbow waited for the evening.
She must have looked at butterflies and praised nature ‘s beauty,
She must have savoured each n every byte of cake dizzy dee.
Her imagination must have taken her on a wild ride.
To hoolasamadu, a place unknown n miss trunchbull on her side.
I m sure she was like a fairy and spread smiles with her magic wand.
She must have enjoyed playing in the snowfall of switzerland.
She must have sat watching cricket and ate chocolates with each over.
And when cricket season came to end she would be in ‘worldcup hangover’.
I think of it all staring outside window.
I wonder if we would have been friends, I ll never know.
It always feels like rain falls from heaven ;it must have fallen on her too.
With each droplet falling on her eyelashes making it look like dew.
A tear falls from my eye and is washed down by rain.
Can u really love smeone you never knew,could you really feel the pain?
She must be smiling some where in the heavens,like a bird free.
She ‘ll rule our hearts forever, pretty princess tejaswee.